WoOhoO!! For the 1st time in the past 1 yr or so, I actually reached home before 2! 1.58 pm to be exact! Felt really nice to be home in afternoon, though I kinda wasted it. Fell asleep in front of the tv. Argh!~

Woke up in the evening. Logged on to do the usual stuff - check emails, read blogs... Oh ya! Guess what?! I made a count of how many blogs I read each time I log on some time back, and the numbers were unbelievable! It was a whopping (close to) 20!! OMGosh man! Though most of them hardly update regularly, but still...

Anyway, I was blog-surfing (Ought to slap myself for this!!), and
came across this. Pasted it here. Thought it was pretty interesting!

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What's a Meantime Girl?

1. She's the one you call when you're bored because she makes you laugh.

2. She's the one you talk to when you're feeling down because she's willing to lend an ear and be a friend.

3. She's not the one you call when you need a date to your company's Christmas party, or to go dancing with on a Saturday night.

4. She's the one you spend time with between girlfriends, before you find "The One". You know, the one who you keep around in the meantime.

5. She's not one of the guys, not a tomboy, but you don't look at her as a "real" woman, either.

6. She's not bitchy enough, moody enough, or sexy enough to be seen in that light.

7. She's too laid-back, too easily amused by the same things your male buddies are amused by.

8. She's too understanding, too comfortable. She doesn't make you feel nervous or excited the way a "real" woman does.

9. But she's cool, and nice, and funny, and attractive enough that when you're lonely or horny and need intimate female companionship, she'll do just fine.

10. You don't have to wine and dine her because she knows the real you already, and you don't have any facades to keep up, no pretenses to preserve.

11. You're not trying to get anything of substance out of her.

12. She's not easy, but you know that she cares about you and is attracted to you, and that she'll give you the intimacy you need. And you know you don't have to explain yourself or the situation.

13. But deep down, if you really think about it (which you probably don't because to you, the situation between the two of you isn't important enough to merit any real thought), you know that it's really not fair.

14. You know that although she would never say it, it hurts her to know that despite all her good points and all the fun you two have, you don't think she's good enough to spend any real time with.

15. Sure, it's mostly her fault, because she doesn't have to give in to your needs. She could play the hard-to-get bitch like the rest of them do, if she really wanted to. But you and she both know that she probably couldn't pull it off.

16. Maybe she's too short, or a little overweight, or has a big birthmark on her forehead, or works at Taco Bell.

17. Whatever the reason, somehow life has given her a lot of really great qualities but has left out the ones that men want (or think they want).

18. You'll joke to her that she should be the best man at your wedding, and she'll laugh and make a joke about a smelly rental tux. She doesn't captivate you with her beauty, or open doors with her smile.

19. Mainly she blends in with the crowd. She's safe. She doesn't want to be the center of attention and turn the heads of everyone in the room. But she wants to turn someone's head.

20. She wants to be special to someone, too. We all do. She has feelings. She has a heart. In fact, she probably has a bigger and better heart than any woman you've ever known because she's had a front-row seat to The Mess That Is Your Life, and she likes you anyway.

21. She obviously sees something worthwhile and redeeming in you because although you've given her nothing, absolutely no reason to still be around, she is.

22. Anyway, yeah. I'm a Meantime Girl. Been one more times than I care to admit. I don't know the reason, really, and at this point I don't even care.

23. I just want to let every guy know who's ever had the good fortune to have a Meantime Girl that we may be a lot of fun, but we cry, too. A lot.

24. And someday we won't be around.

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